I need to get counseling. I am trying everything in the book and she is hell bent on getting a divorce as soon as possible. I'm beginning to get angry because she's going to force us to sell our house and the market sucks right now, we're going to lose a ton of money, I'm really starting to wonder if there's another man. I just don't understand this. All of my family lives 1000 miles from here and I really have no friends here. This is the lowest part of my life, and oh yeah, now I get to be a visitor in my son's life. Who invented this divorce crap?