the word is out

[courageous wife]

So, just sitting here thinking that it has been 6mos since the bomb and 2 since H left...half a year already!

Saw a time line on one of HB's sermons and got me to thinking about when H's MLC started? Could it have seriously been back in 2001 when he left us the first time? He had quit his job of 20 years without having another one to go to and cashed in his 401K.

OR... was it when he got fired from a job for very immature, goofing around stuff in which several people got fired? Then, after he finally gets the job where he is it now, buys the Hot Rod without telling me...a few months later, my Dad dies, I am diagnosed with breast cancer and somewhere in between all that EA started with co-worker which turned into PA, still not sure when that happened...H had a stint put in in Nov. 09.

His first wife had several affairs on him, not sure of the year they got divorced, maybe 1988? His parents both died in the early 50's in the early 1990's so maybe it really started there? We got married in 1994. I have never heard of anything that may have happened in H's childhood that would have traumatized him.

Just pondering...maybe I should put this on HB's question thread! Boy, would I love to meet her!