Finally realised that he is having an A!!

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So I have decided to switch from newcomers to this forum, as I finally realised today what everyone has been trying to tell me for about 8 months now. They aren't just friends they are haveing a A.

I finally realised it when my H decided to take the OW to watch my son's footie match - it just dawned on me - he is grooming her to be the next Mrs. He has had the OW around my kids every single time he has had them for an overnight stay and this w-end they went out together the whole weekend.

What I need some advise on is how I deal with OW. I really dont like her arond my kids. I dont know her, dont trust her and my kids just tolerate her. I have asked him to keep her away and he has told me no. I even sent a Letter via my L and again he said no. I have told him it is confusing to our kids, he said it isnt and that they are fine. They arent - when they get home they tell me they arent.

My orignial stich is under 'He isa bout to file - do I give up?'