(1) you are right, he said so, he acts so. Dont know what to do except not attck him and be "friendly and easygoing". I know he doenst feel at home yet, I am working on that. (2) you are not right about that. Our interactions are from my side, relaxed and trying to boost hie ego. Not always, not when I hit a low but 80% of the times. I am actually very empathetic (?) to his emotional state. I would be even more so if I knew what it is exactly.
The reason I didnt ask him about those emails is because I dont want to be like you said :"constantly judging, analyzing, and expecting every little thing related to him and that's adding a lot to the tension". ANY discussion about it, no matter how "user friendly" I try to make it, it pushes him to the edge, he becomes defensive and scared adn withdraws just as you described it. I figured, we cant talk about these things right now. We first need to establish some kind of solid foundation/environment where we both will feel safe. I may be using the MC time for that and only then. fb2, I dont know if he is really DONE with her.
