Originally Posted By: Buffet
Is to just look at W and think about how that is not even the same person and almost feel bad for what her life is going to become when the fog lifts--and it will someday.

Stay strong and be a great dad--that is the best thing you can do right now


Thanks Buffet. yeah you arent kidding about it not being the same person.

of course I often wonder also if maybe it is the same person and everythgin I came to know was just an act...meaning I never really knew her at all.

If so...then the fog may never lift...because theres no fog to lift...that's just the perosn she is and always has been.

I looked into public records about the OM...and I'm able to surmise that he's some kind of financial analyst or something. As I've guessed all along, he likely has money...and my ex, who's always been about money...has indeed found her gravy train. It's sickening.


Me - 32
EX - 26
D - 3

BOMB: 11/02/09
EA/PA confirmed 1/29/10

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