FLTC, my STBX just asked me to go to the cottage this summer for a week with her and the girls and some friends. She doesn't seem to get why I'm not jumping up and down with joy at the prospect. I said "I think it my be difficult for me to do, seven days is a long time" and she says "you have vacation time don't you?" Apparently, she's way off in la la land! I tried to explain that "emotionally" it might be difficult and then she hit me with guilt "we don't spend much family time together with the kids anymore" Gee, maybe that's because you didn't want the marriage anymore!!!! Yup, strange creatures.
