Yes, it does matter if there is an OW involved. Her actions should be the same regardless, I agree, BUT affairs are temporary 95% time. And with exposure, some can end sooner. And it is nice to be able to understand the sudden change in their feelings is not real--it's not due to us--it's b/c of an OP!
I disagree. It makes no difference at all. He could have left because he succumbed to mental illness, or because he's actually a counterfeiter who is hiding from the law, or because Kate Moss asked him to move in. Either way he's gone.
Nothing and everything is due to us in any case. People leave because they want to leave every time, and every time they find some lame excuse which pins their leaving on the left behind spouse. Who cares?
The poor pregnant chickie who got left behind is encouraged not to try to psychoanalyze her wandering husband from afar. Work on yourself doll. Know that no matter what happens, people care about you and the baby. You will be O.K.. You are strong, decent and capable of many things.
M:40 W:40 2 teenagers ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010 soon to be walking away my situation
