She has disrespected you just about as strongly as she possibly could. To paraphrase Puppy, this is only about 1/100th of a percent less bad than had she actually bedded these men IN the house, instead of through the computer.
I think he said it in reference to the kids being in the next room being a tiny percent better than the same room when W was having computer sex. As far as the respect for her H, I agree, it is horrible. But, come on....are you saying that the kids might as well have been in the very same room watching what takes place? Are you saying that the woman might as well bring the men "into" the house and have sex? I understand (at least I think I do) what you mean....but it isn't what you are saying. I'm not defending cybersex whatsoever....but let's keep things real here. Are you saying that a man would just as soon have his wife do another man in his home--as to know she was showing herself over the webcam. Would he rather her see a naked man over the webcam or to know she had given him oral sex in real life? I realize he doesn't want either, but are you saying that the two equal as the same?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
