Ouch... no flowmom, some of those are OK, but many are WAY TOO OPEN ENDED for him to misinerpret
"we can only move forward"
"time to ove on"
"change is scary"
This all does NOT discourage divorce, it just reinforces it...
In my opinion EVERY comment should be STEERED to something marriage -friendly AND positive AND SPECIFIC/CONCRETE that can't be interpreted as
"let's divorce"
THAT is a HUGE STOP SIGN that you need to avoid at all costs... and anything you say that MIGHT suggest looking there should be kept silent... never said...
Positive, concrete, and HOPEFUL... that's the objective.
