Okay..why did I answer the phone without looking at the caller ID first? Because I was rushing out to lunch.
It was my H and he wanted to tell me that it appears that I did not care that he was here on yesterday and that I did not demonstrate that I was happy to see him. The NERVE!!!!!
He said that I (ME) have to "demonstrate through my actions!!!!" WTF?
He also said that, I should "stop talking about all the psychological BS and speak in relative terms. Talk about what you are going to do today and not what happened six years ago."
It was like he was yelling at me for everything that I did up until 2 weeks ago.
Yes, I did the pleading, crying, begging, bargaining, and I felt good over the last few days because I began to take back control.
He then threw around the D word saying we "so, we still need to separate everything". I told him that I really had work to do and that I was meeting someone so I didn't have time. He said fine, and hung up (didn't even say goodbye).
What is going on with him? Geez!
Off to lunch.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
