Yes, it does matter if there is an OW involved. Her actions should be the same regardless, I agree, BUT affairs are temporary 95% time. And with exposure, some can end sooner. And it is nice to be able to understand the sudden change in their feelings is not real--it's not due to us--it's b/c of an OP!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
