I agree for the most part with all the advice you've been given.
I think Gnosis provided an excellent series of steps to follow. I would be inclined to follow that advice almost to a T.
Tell her you know, and you know all of it.
Tell her that she needs to leave, as this behavior will not continue to be carried out in your home, next door to your children.
I think you can even express your remorse at the person she has become, the things she has done.
And I agree also that YOU need to then END the conversation.
She has disrespected you just about as strongly as she possibly could. To paraphrase Puppy, this is only about 1/100th of a percent less bad than had she actually bedded these men IN the house, instead of through the computer.
Disrespect is only shown to those who you do not respect.
It's time to turn that tide.
Oh, and then? Leave her be. Completely.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
