In addition to Going Dark I would love to give my W the big fat check for Assets and Maintenance when we sign the final papers this week and get her off of the credit cards and on her own. The mediator said that we should keep the joint accounts going until now.
robx has been great with his 2x4 on me and I agree that I have nothing to lose by Going Dark and leaving her alone and GAL for myself because that is the way it is looking it's going to be anyway. Maybe it will shake her and maybe it wont but I have to start living for me and not living on hope. I'll still be DBing if she contacts me but if she doesn't, oh well.
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
