Stop talking about it with her. Stop telling her how you feel and what you're going to do. And don't be asking her how she feels about the relationship, or where she is at currently in the relationship.
Put it on the back burner for now.
Oh, and this?
Quote:
But even I know if it unhealthy to love someone in a one-sided relationship.
...is NOT an absolute truth.
There are often times in our marriages where only one possesses the capacity to demonstrate their love. During that time it may in fact be one-sided.
That's the time when WE carry our spouse...
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."