flowmom | shifting from devastated to rebuilding

[flowmom]

I guess I would like to see a sitch where sleeping at H's apartment is more like going on a "sleepover", then returning to their home base here. My children are very attached to H and he is very nurturing to them, but I don't like the idea of them being expected to live in two homes. H sees the routines as being independent of physical location, but I disagree. This is their "nest". Sometimes they've really resisted going to his apartment during the day, because they just needed "home time".