I would choice A.

I agree, I am not strong enough right now to have a convo with H. And I don't plan on having one any time soon, however if I do get cornered, I wanted to know what to say. We did have a brief encounter yesterday because he watched the kids while I worked. However, other than the bday present convo, there was nothing else. I told him I was really busy and had a lot of homework, so he left without another word. He didn't even bring up his text about filing tomorrow.

I tried to watch the video on Friday. But I think I went to the wrong one. I will watch it right now. Thanks for the link.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10