W told me today "this isn't working, she is crying at work and sense the kids trying to fix us".... She said there were 2 options in her mind D or S. I told her an S makes more sense than D. She asked if I would move out? I said no and she said she didn't want to leave the kids...we have an extra b'room in the basement...she asked if she should go down there or will I? I said I would. How does this separation stuff work in the same house? We are going to tell our daughters tonight we are just trying to work things through.


Me 56
W 47
D17, D15,D15
Married 28years, in divorce 3 yrs
Bomb 8/20/09
Separated 3 yrs