Oh one thing I forgot to mention. He had taken the kids shopping on Tuesday to get me bday presents. He asked on Sat if I liked the presents the kids got me. When I told him that I didn't get anything. He was very sorry, and said he felt really bad, I could tell it made him feel bad. I just said that it was no big deal.

Also, he found out that I had bought my own bday cake and arranged my own party with my family. That to made him feel bad. I just ignored him and again said it was no big deal.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10