I like how the doc that you linked to describes children's needs and signs of distress, but I don't like how prescriptive it is and I don't think that it necessarily fits our family.
Yes, the document just gives ideas. WH and I do not follow any part of it except the overnight visit. He sees S waaaay more than "prescribed" but at the same time I am not absent the whole time S is with WH.
I just wanted to show you something that lists the number of overnight visits recommended based on age of child, but I realize there wasn't research attached to the document. I remember reading that it was based on psychologists' recommendations.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004