Babydoll, I am very sorry to hear this happened to you. It is more common thank you think.

First, stop all texting and calling. Pat yourself on the back each hour that goes by that you don't do it. The first 3 days will be the hardest and then it will get easier.

Any chance there is another woman involved? How old are you two?
Has he taken any legal action to file for divorce?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004