How do I expose the affair

[Cadet]

I feel like I’ll regret either decision I make, D or M

I’m confused and lost

Have you considered that your H is in MLC.

The above quotes show confusion. Which is more of a MLC trait than a WAS. I have followed some of your sich and I know your H has had an A, of course if this is a MLC this is not unusual. I do not really like to jump in between WAS or MLC so if you think I am way off base that is fine.