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That is about the most toxic, intolerant, and just plain fu.ck.ing wrong thing I have ever read on this forum. You owe every sexually-abused woman (and man) on the planet who may not be able to "tell the difference" an apology.


I apologise for offending anyone. Certainly not my intention.

I was sexually abused for many years - and perhaps my post says more about my journey than anything else….

I've worked very hard to understand and learn the difference between my abuser and men who love and respect me. It’s tough work – and perhaps I am intolerant of those who won’t do the work to understand the difference. I’ll reflect on that.

.I don’t back down from the concept that there is a huge difference between an intimate and loving sexual relationship with a man who loves me and the man who abused me.

Last edited by Walking; 02/28/10 01:13 PM.

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