Fm, I am 100% with you on the security bond issue. I have not allowed my S to "stay at dad's" yet and I hope not to but H is bringing it up. I would love to send him that article, but he is an intellectual and will laugh off the source. If you can find something more "academic" would you let me know?

I think the email was perfect - rr's version even better. CLear, concise, non blaming yet firm. SEnd it!


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship