Robx, I didn't word my original post too well. Actually it's the OMs wife that is the CEO of the company. So he'll go groveling back to her with his tail between his legs if/when she finds out.
So you guys are all on the same page and think the direct hard-hitting approach is the best. I just wonder if I'd get a whole sentence out before she ran out the door. When she doesn't like what she's hearing she'll tend to run away. I guess that's alright...eventually she'll want to hear me out.
Hmmm, I've got some thinkin' to do...thanks for the advice, guys.
MICrazy
What's this when & if business?!
There is no trying, DO or DO NOT, I think I heard that in star wars LOL! But seriously, make a plan, and then follow through.
Remember no long speeches, the opposite, short & sweet, to the point.
It's up to you whether or not you want to expose the affair but the consensus around these parts is that when you expose an affair you remove the excitement associated with it (ie. sneaking around, hiding, secrets, etc.) and that does go a long way to killing an affair.
Will this work 100% of the time? NO.
But seriously, what do you have to lose? She's with the OM, you've done your fair share of losing already, time to expose the affair. If your wife goes batshitcrazy, no worries, you appear cool, calm, collected and confident - what was being done to you wasn't right, and you're nobody's fool. Never forget that.
