Flowmom, no offense, but I read the link and it doesn't really sound that informative. What I mean is it didn't really talk about the effects of staying overnight one night per week versus 2 or more...it just came across as "children should never be aware from their mothers."
Check out this link to my state's parenting plan sample schedules, broken down by age group:
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004