Originally Posted By: Gynandtonix


I am scared that she will return to the OM.
I am concerned that she will allow him to intergrate into her life again.

But what do I do, keep her under lock and key?



No, you don't. But you don't go all fatalistic and "what will happen, will happen," either.

You fight for your marriage.

You fight for your wife.

You MINIMIZE THE CHANCES that she will reignite her affair, and you do everything you can to protect your marriage from this PREDATOR.

Trust has to be EARNED. I see nothing in your wife's past behavior that justifies the blind faith you are having in her right now.

Puppy