She IS cake-eating and has you walking on eggshells. And she is being incredibly disrespectful of YOUR feelings.

She has all sorts of excuses for not avoiding OM. Why is he not blocked from her phone? Why are the expensive gifts from OM so important to her?

Plus, why would anyone believe anything that a lying, cheating w would say?

Kick her @ss to the curb. You deserve a better w and the kids deserve a better role model for a "mother."