Husband in Crisis - what do I do?

[DestinyUnknown]

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I got home from work tonight (6:30) to find my H still here. I thought he was gone because I called and no one answered (thought it was safe). When I saw his car, I came in through the garage and went upstairs and closed the door to my bedroom. My H then comes in and asks what I was doing. I said hello and that I had still more work to do.

I believed he felt ignored because when I got out my laptop and a folder I brought home from work, he said, I thought we could talk.

I didn't want to get into the R talk and so I told him that I didn't think that would be good and told him I really need to get back to work. He went back to taxes downstairs.

Well he just left but not before telling me that he wanted to talk but it was apparent that I didn't care he was there and that it appeared that I didn't want to talk with him and said "this is a catch 22 situation".

So he said he was leaving, said he needed to get to bed (has reserve duty tomorrow). But he did say that we really needed to talk about our situation before he is deployed because according to him, "WE need to decide what WE'RE going to do...Right?" I said nothing and he asked again.. "Right?" I said I have really nothing to say.

Before he left, I asked if he received my message from the call I made this morning (only because he hadn't mentioned it). The message was about cancelling his mobilization (this was the earlier panic'd posting by me...I know crazy!!). He seemed really depressed when he heard about the cancellation. I said goodnight, and he left.

Strange. I am trying not to read into this...really and it is hard for me not to. Not sure what this all means. Maybe nothing. Okay, back to GAL'ing. I am reading the Lost Symbol.

DU