what diff does it make if she tells him what you said if it's all true? IF it's not true or you are revealing strategies, then learn from this and stop ASAP....or is it B/C he'll be mad that you are telling folks? Okay, let him be...try to be more discreet b/c really you do NOT benefit in any way by airing dirty laundry and it keeps you stuck in anger, not moving on, looking petty or vindictive or worse, and apparently, it energizes him in a bad way...enough.
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Everything I told her was the truth. It was more we were catching up and getting close again after all of these years. I don't care if she tells him what I said although it would suck for him to know everything I told her about how I was feeling. Its more of this betrayel feeling. Like she knew how much this devastating man hurt me and kids and still sought him out. I felt like she was a good friend again and it was nice having someone to do things with.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
