what diff does it make if she tells him what you said if it's all true? IF it's not true or you are revealing strategies, then learn from this and stop ASAP....or is it B/C he'll be mad that you are telling folks? Okay, let him be...try to be more discreet b/c really you do NOT benefit in any way by airing dirty laundry and it keeps you stuck in anger, not moving on, looking petty or vindictive or worse, and apparently, it energizes him in a bad way...enough.
Move on, and don't let any of this poop into your center....know what I mean? This "data" is not important. This "friend" is not important. Your X h's opionion of you, your behavior, your m, the color of the moon or whether Pluto really should be considered a planet, are NOT IMPORTANT in the grand scheme of things...trivial pursuits....seriously....
The times your h is NOT with your d are GOOD b/c you don't have to deal with him and neither does she. Be grateful for the peace and seek more of it. Why complain about THAT? Have you joined a church group or some spiritual outlet? I think it'd be a good idea b/c in a way, you simply have too much time on your hands even though you are "busy" with baby...your mind is not occupied enough, imo, and so you go to dark places and you need to stop that. Make sense? You DO have some control and some choice here, so exercise it...I'm rooting for you.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
