Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
I found myself asking myself "Was I That bad a H that my W could not be happy? Was I REALLY that bad?"


I've tortured myself with that one too, and came to the same conclusion - yes, I was a good husband, W has even said as much -

When it comes down to it, our wives will do what they will do, and there is some stuff going on with them that don't have anything to do with us. You're a good man and you've put a hell of a lot of work into yourself and your M.

Hang in there man.