flowmom | shifting from devastated to rebuilding

[flowmom]

And I think 2 overnights at this point is too much too soon! Start with 1 overnight for a long time, don't you agree? But don't know how you guys are figuring this out right now.

I think one overnight at a time is more than enough. I know that he wants to do what the guys at work do: long stretches of the kids being with one parent to minimize inconvenience for the parents. He told me that "that's how things go" soon after he moved out (based on what "all the guys" at work do).