I Need Your Love - Is That True?: How to Stop Seeking Love, Approval, and Appreciation and Start Finding Them Instead You'll never look at love the same way. "The Work" is a very useful tool for processing painful thoughts.
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It Explains gender differences in communication and how to understand that downward spiral that happens when communication breaks down in marriage. His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage This outlines gender differences in women's and men's needs in marriage. A good place to start when you can't figure out why your spouse was so unhappy that s/he had an A, moved out, etc. A Complaint Free World: How to Stop Complaining and Start Enjoying the Life You Always Wanted If your spouse sees you as a negative person, this is something you can start today to do a 180 for your own benefit and to become a person that people want to be around. Read this short book ASAP after starting the challenge to get answers to all of the FAQs. Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship Dumb title, but very useful book with specific guidelines on how to put your guy into "pursuer" mode. For all the "nice" girls out there.
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk One of the best and easiest to read parenting books ever and good inspiration for dealing with parenting challenges during a tough time. Also recommended by my DB coach as a primer on how to communicate with my H.
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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
