OK now I seroiusly need some advice. After writing to her, OMW has called me & we are meeting on Monday. She was not aware that things were still moving along with W/OM & I think is very annoyed that he has been lying to her but they have been married 28 years & sounded as if she wants to keep it together. OMW thought they were still trying to make a go of marriage, W say it is "not about him its about me". Looks to me as if W is making the running but OM is feeding her the plan. He can't lose so he is in lower risk territory. I'm lost in Oz world thought processes. Not sure what OMW will do but seemed fairly calm. They have joint business, good life etc. so he has much to lose. How do I play this?
