Listen to Wifey. Dark means DARK!! I seriously do not know why you are still listening to your flaky, lying wife, much less considering letting her back in the house.
I luv ya, SC, so please, take the following advice in the spirit in which it is meant:
GROW A PAIR!!! And, STOP LETTING HER DICK YOU AROUND!!!
And, I don't care how "mad" she gets, your w will NOT respect you until you do.