That is why I asked about her knowing X's 1st wife. I may be a bit paranoid, but I was wondering if 1st wife sent her on a fact finding mission, becaue you have said in the past that she backs up X in his ridiculous claims. Now that you know she is also his friend you will have to put her in a different column....unfortunate.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
