I've hit a wall.. Now what?

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Tal, first off I gotta say this. Just what the world needs, another Lawyer!!!

To you and Aver,

Read enough on the boards and you'll see that some people do go on to save their M's and get their lives back on track with WAS. But a lot don't, at the end of the day it's not up to you and what will be will be.

The fact that you're both having your ups and downs says you're normal people. The fact that you can deal with the intense emotions that go with this journey, not hide them, SHOWS that you are both extraordinary people.

And that's what this is, a Journey. IMO the destination really isn't as important as the road you travel to get there.

If the destination brings you and H back together, fine. If it doesn't fine as well.

The really important thing is the Journey. You are both doing what it's all about - dealing with a crap situation with style, grace and a determination not to let things overwhelm you.

I know you will both get to a place where you can honestly see that your future is bright no matter what the outcome.

Oh and BTW, as you said on your thread Aver, there really is nothing like having another person touch you when you've been alone for so long, even if it's just an innocent hand over the shoulder.

Hugs to both of you, you're doing a fantastic job.