Holy Crap! Didn't expect THIS!

[Trixi]

I 'heart' you Dom! Muh'wah!!

I think you are spot on! That was a HUGE help! I am now going to read that over and over.

My daughter called last night (thank GOD!)and she played it like every thing was cool, she didn't understand why I was worried; but when I tried to get any real info from her, she was evasive. My H and I meet with an intervention specialist Monday to formulate a plan of action.

That was a relief.

But when it rains, it pours. My teammates returned from a real estate conference and are now switching up how the team works. ANd how it will work is they get all the listings and I get the buyers. This model (where one person is the buyer's agent) is usually where a newbie starts. I have 10 years experience. Working with just buyers will mean that I will only have a limited ability to make money because there are only so many buyers you can work with. Unlike listings where you can have 40 listings at once and be able manage them if you have the proper systems in place(while other agents sell them for you). Buyers are time intensive and no matter how you hack it, there are only so many hours in a day. OH, and did I mention the commission split would be even less than it already is?

They are committed to this new model and I have 60 days to decide, but they want to implement it immediately. Great.

So, I guess I am going to be changing what company I work for in the extreme near future.

In a sense, now H and I are "even" for stresses-- he has to find a whole new job, but I can move my license wherever I want so that change isn't AS stressful. BUT, I have to pack and move. (Assuming we're actually getting back together...)
He's meeting with his parents today; I assume to tell them what's going on and maybe get some advice... I don't know.