I always wanted to have children. And to thank God for not having them. Its just such a horrible thought. I have thought it a few times.
Well now I have an opportunity to have children. ( Either my own or someone else's children to love as my own)
And its an opportunity that I do not want to pass up. If it presents itself down the road.
A very interesting topic of conversation. Children vs. no children.
We have the bonus of fully cutting the cords. Where as those with children can cut the cord but will always have some form of interaction throughout the years.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
I would encourage anyone who truly wants to be parent to follow that wish , whether that's with biological children or otherwise. People who choose parenthood with their hearts find that it brings much joy.
Originally Posted By: cutterbug
We have the bonus of fully cutting the cords. Where as those with children can cut the cord but will always have some form of interaction throughout the years.
So true. I envy those who can look forward to one day having a clean slate after D.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
FANTASTIC~ And you started training 6 months ago? Geesh, it is amazing what we can do in our lives in just 6 months time!!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Fantastic cutter!! I hope you are celebrating right now. Way to GAL...
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Next on list is book vacation (approved today at work ) sell house. Which adds. Find new place to live and get me a truck.
I have 3 more races coming up.
going to book another half in May or June.
Aver I have been thinking very much about moving out of here I have talked to daybyday about it and P17. Given it some thought Since I am not going back into the marriage. I am legally separated according to the law. My mind and my heart feel the same.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
congrats on running the half marathon!!! And you had great time! I am trying to motivate myself to get back to running. My friends and I used to all run the Army 10 miler every year...my last time running was 2007 :-(
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
, whether that's with biological children or otherwise. People who choose parenthood with their hearts find that it brings much joy.