She's been having webcam sex for months

[MICrazy]

I don't understand what the whole "Friend of the Court" things is. Do you have a lawyer? It seems to me that you need one, and you should give the L all of this info to advise you on what should be done. You need to look out for the children first, and her new lifestyle is not going to be in their best interest.

Hi Shocked One,

Yes I do have a lawyer but she says that if it doesn't directly affect the children, ie. they don't see it, there's nothing they can do. My interests lie with my kids and that's why I think I need to confront her on this, sooner rather than later. I just want to know the best way to do it.

The Friend of the Court talks to the divorcing couple and gets their income information as well as what the couple wants to do as far as custody. They then make a recommendation to the court itself as to who should get child support, etc.