I just started reading a book titled: Mating In Captivity by Esther Perel.
I am just a couple of chapters into the book at this point. I find it both insightful and disturbing at the same time (you will understand what I mean).
I don't expect this book will provide practical solutions for divorce busters. However, I do think it provides insight into what drives a walk-away-spouse. The book also sheds some light on why detaching and getting a life can help.
Below are two quotes from a review of this book that I think illustrate my points. "Passion demands you discard all that's dear to you - so what are you waiting for?"
"The cozy closeness of marriage does not often promote unruly desire; that children, the fruit of eros, are sometimes simultaneously its end; and that knowing everything about a person domestically or psychologically does not always make one crave that person biblically."
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010