I get that Kevin...and I wouldn't want to miss my older kids stuff either, but its really hard for me to be accomodating for that when its yet just another excuse and he blows baby off all the time for random things as well. I take those hours and make them exh's, even over my other kids. I have said no to my own children things during exh's time.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!