Your exh is in a tough situation with his other daughters events. For me personally, I think the bigger thing to do is try and adjust the schedule for him to see baby but something within reason. I don't think you should punish his other daughter who is innocent in this or baby for that matter.

I know it is not an easy situation. Try and detach emotionally from what you think about him and instead try and think about the kids.

Just my 2 cents.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...