Sexual abuse history can obviously complicate a desire to be physically dominated.
That's an excuse that's convenient for you to exuse the difficulties yo have in your relationship. There is a very big difference between a man who is sexually confident and loves you - than a misogynst, dysfunctional abuser.
It also demonstrates that you don't understand the difference between being sexually dominant in a mature, mutually signficant sexual relationship and being "dominant" in a whip me, beat me, love me context. Huge difference my friend, huge diference - and all women, abused or not, can tell the difference.
That is about the most toxic, intolerant, and just plain fu.ck.ing wrong thing I have ever read on this forum. You owe every sexually-abused woman (and man) on the planet who may not be able to "tell the difference" an apology.
Or maybe you'd rather snark at returned soldiers who freak out when a car backfires, too.
Last edited by Kettricken; 02/27/1006:00 PM.
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