I agree. He is actually coming to the house today..he asked to come see the dogs. Yesterday he came by to shovel snow. He is making more of an effort now than he has in the past. I am just trying to remain patient and will continue to watch what he does and how he acts. He has got to bring up relationship conversation at some point... but I will continue to not bring it up. I know this is crazy..but after everything he has done and the hell he has put me through... I cannot help but feel sorry for him. I don't feel anger and haven't for quite some time. Maybe it is me detaching... This should be an interesting day.