Our kids could stay in their home and at their present schools.
I would be two blocks from my workplace.
The kids would still live six block from X's workplace.
The house is large enojgh that I could move my elderly (87) mother in with me and the kids, getting her out of a deteriorating neighborhood.
The kids love their "Na-Na" and they could be together the maximum time of what she has left.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13