Thanks girls,

This would be so good for so many if it happens.

Our kids could stay in their home and at their present schools.

I would be two blocks from my workplace.

The kids would still live six block from X's workplace.

The house is large enojgh that I could move my elderly (87) mother in with me and the kids, getting her out of a deteriorating neighborhood.

The kids love their "Na-Na" and they could be together the maximum time of what she has left.

"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.