Ok, I think I am talking to myself these days! I hope you all are still there! I need you guys for strength and wonderful wisdom.
Not sure what to do...
Remember my friend I talked about a few weeks ago.The one whose son died last summer and we reconnected via FB? We have hung out a few times since then. It really was nice to maybe go a different direction socially and find someone away from exh. She met exh a few times maybe 15 years ago when he was married to exw1 and she was married to her exh. They haven't seen eachother since.
This morning I was checking my FB and notice that exh and my friends are now friends! WTF! So I did peek into exh's email to see who added who...my friend added exh with a little message "Hey stranger! Long time! I met your darling baby. She is a cutie. Let's catch up!"
I am floored! I feel really betrayed. We sat at my table and she heard all of the horrible things exh has done, the person he was and is..how he still tries to lie, cheat, manipulate, etc. How much he has hurt me and the kids.
She sought him out! He didn't add her. I don't even know what to say. I probably won't say a word to her, but I will not be hanging out with her anymore.
I am really bummed.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
