I just wanted to perhaps give you a little reassurance from what you posted on Jack's thread.
My h spent the past two years giving me the impression that he didn't think about me. Added to the fact that in the early days he told me that he never thought about me and didn't miss me it was one of the main things I struggled with a lot. Turns out, as he told me the other day that he thinks about me and the situation 'in one form or another' everyday and has no recollection of saying those words to me 'and they absolutely weren't true'.
So as Jack says, they do think about you... keep working.
