H just called. Tried to make a joke saying that I called him this morning twice (not really, he has 2 cell phones, so I tried both). When I said it was not funny, he said he was being playful.
Said he left messages and texted me yesterday and I never returned his call or text. SA, I did tell him that I didn't get the message until late. He wants to come over tonight instead of at lunch. Need to complete taxes (finally found the missing paperwork). I asked him if he is still being deployed. He said yes, but this is a bit confusing because of the message from Reserve Command saying his orders were being cancelled. Is he lying to me?
My H originally thought that it was only 6 months before you could file here in our state, but it is 1 year if you do not have a LS agreement or PROP settlement document in place. Again, last week, he was really pushing to get the PROP settlement in place by having us walk through the house dividing everything up. CRAZY!!!
So I am not sure if this is a ploy to continue with the PROP settlement.
I told him that it was okay for him to drop by after 4:00. He then said ..."we can talk about what has happened since I left...okay Babe?" Yes, he stills uses those terms of endearment when he wants something...... What is that about?
I have to get my mind right. IC session this morning (8:00 AM), then off to work. I know, I was suppose to have a spa day, but boss asked my team to work today. At least, it keeps me busy.
Maybe I will "spa" at home tomorrow.
Any thoughts on how to handle to H today?
Last edited by DestinyUnknown; 02/27/1011:49 AM.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
