As her "friend", it shows me what she posts. She deleted it from there or something later, but I don't really need to even look at my own facebook acct. I also got curious as to what she was thinking because we don't really even talk anymore.
She still keeps coming over and sometimes fixes dinner for kids(takes some with her), or gets more clothes-or furniture, etc.--or sometimes picks kids up from school or drops them off. I am going to tell her we need scheduling on visits and change the door locks.
She has told me what furniture she wants, and that is fine, but today she didn't even tell me she was going to move it, and she was playing on my computer. I also think OM helped her move furniture when she assured me she would never bring him here!!--not that she ever lies or anything--(right.)
The computer at OM's house doesn't work so well, or no internet or something. Anyways, she shouldn't just pop in and use one of mine whenever she feels like it! --or make dinner because food is scarce at her "OM paradise hotel".
I know she will say I'm trying to keep her from HER girls, but I think it's harder on them right now. (I talked to them first, and they agreed) They get their hopes up they will see her, or she will visit, or stay longer, then she doesn't show or call or pay any attention to them. Visits need to be scheduled and cleared with me, I think. She doesn't live here anymore--she can't just come and go as she pleases!
I also think she needs to realize what she is leaving---the girls and family AND even the other less important, but still nice, little things like food, computers, bills being paid, etc.)
Separation is what it is ---not come by anytime she feels like it and I'm not home and leave before I get home. What do you all think???
Every time she's been here and moves stuff, I get this funky violated feeling--not that I don't want all of that stuff out of here, but it just feels weird.
M:48 W:35 S:16 D:15 D:10 Md: 12 & 1/2 years bomb: Jan 8 ? she moved out about then also Moved in w/OM soon after
